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Food and Family : Figuring it Out {a guest post for Grace Table}

Dec 08, 2014 Leave a Comment ~ Written by lisha epperson
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 “It was very pleasant to savor its aroma, for smells have the power to evoke the past, bringing back sounds and even other smells that have no match in the present. -Tita, Like Water for Chocolate

If more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.” – J.R.R Tolkien

I learned to make pancakes as a Girl Scout and remember the smell of liver and onions simmering in my mother’s kitchen. It’s still a favorite, the scent of food prepared with love, a deep childhood memory. That my mother found time to prepare meals every day amazes me now. We never ate out and rarely had company. No take out Chinese or “save the day” pizza. My mother cooked every day. Only as an adult can I understand a little about how hard her life alone with four children must have been. How hard it must have been to make it happen in the kitchen… every day.

So what’s with this passion for food and fellowship. I’m still not quite sure but I guess it was her…in spite of the circumstances she prepared every meal with love. I’m sure I felt that. It was one of the many ways she showed love.

But I didn’t learn to cook at home. I’m a recipe girl through and through. I tweak to make things mine but I know how to follow a recipe. A clear recipe offers a guideline and serves as a foundation for safe exploration. My first cookbook was B. Smith’s Entertaining and Cooking for Friends, purchased in Costco for $15. This book was my food bible. Her recipes, scriptural revelation for the meals I’d prepare for my new husband. In the tiny kitchen of our first apartment I’d cook gourmet soul food by candlelight – thoroughly reading each instruction….chapter and verse. Listening to Sade and Nina Simone I’d lean into the poetry of a perfect dish.

Join me at Grace Table to hear the rest of my culinary journey.

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Grounding : In the Kitchen – Dying To Self {Day5}

Oct 06, 2014 5 Comments ~ Written by lisha epperson

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For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. – Colossians 3:3

I’m starting with the man in the mirror, I’m asking him to change his ways
If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at your self and make the change – Michael Jackson

I hate having to clean the kitchen before cooking but it was one of those days. Leftover work from the day before created the mess of a kitchen I walked into. Pensive and prayerful, I took my place at the sink mumbling mommy prayers…each one beginning with “Oh Lord Jesus”.

I never want to do it. But kitchen ministry usually provides ample time to think on the many ways God works in a life. There’s no other place in my home where I can count on a daily stripping to set my heart right. It’s where I begin and end my day – dying to self. It’s time well spent.

Today I washed dishes while catching up on one of my favorite television shows on Hulu. Actor dialogue and a steady stream of running water fought for my attention. I solved that problem by working only during commercial breaks. Kitchen ministry was slow.

God and I have partnered in this life altar-altering since 1989. It’s been a long time. Through daily, repetitive work He shows me the art of dying to self…to live for him. But I’m a lot like an onion. Somehow I keep forgetting that just as I peel back one layer, there’s another…just as strong, just as thick. It’s a process.

Work in the kitchen is all about dying to self. It reminds me of the daily cleansing I have to do to keep myself on track. From the washing of dishes to the baking of bread…he reveals short but important messages on how life requires patience.  How in the washing we’re made ready to serve and in serving…we receive. He shows me how, to truly live, I’ll have to meet him in the kitchen….again.

He encourages me to get back up and go back in. To turn off the leaking faucet of words and thoughts that hold contentment hostage, to bend low, to reach high, to hold fast – there’s grace and hope in believing His fire will create something new. He and I , we’re chopping, slicing and dicing that old nature. Denying myself and picking up my cross in the kitchen is a humbling life practice where I allow Him to make me over, day by day. It starts with Him –  grounding me in my marriage, my motherhood, my friendships.

So I wash myself with the word of God. I listen to the work of gifted speakers and inspiring music. I practice peace with silence. I look myself in the eye at least once a day to make sure the new me is winning. And in the kitchen I don’t need a mirror to do it. I catch soul glimpses of my reflection in boiling water, in the whisper thin skin from a piece of garlic clinging to my fingers.

Sometimes, the new me is covered in unforgiveness, other times, it’s doubt or fatigue. To be sure, there’s more, but those few keep me busy. Today it was poor choices and my stubborn addiction to late night tv (I could have been in and out of the kitchen in half the time if I didn’t have to watch season 1 episodes 11 and 12 of the The Good Wife – can you believe it took me that long to turn it off?) Checking in with myself helps me make sure I like what I see. It keeps  me grounded and alive to the source that sustains me.

Ground yourself in this… Listen for the lesson. It’s in the doing of life…in the small and mundane…the grind of life. Listen for Him and let go. And…don’t forget self check-ins are mandatory – in the ‘hood we say “check ya self before ya wreck ya self”.

Joining The Nester for the #31Days Writing Challenge and Kelli for Unforced Rhythms

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31 Days of Grounding : Remembering Who and Whose You Are

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